Daniel H. answered 05/08/22
Let’s go with number 1.
It is sometimes opined that “patience” is not necessarily the sheer ability to wait, but how you behave while waiting (Joyce Meyers).
In my life, I’ve found that we are constantly “waiting” for many events, both short- and long-term. Many of these waiting events happen simultaneously, with different waiting periods expiring when an event actually occurs, and others supplanting those whose time has run out. While we tend to prioritize future events that we deem the most enjoyable, how we behave while waiting can telegraph not only our maturity, but also experience; for repeating the same types of activities, even those we perceive as “enjoyable” can sometimes lead to burnout.
Take someone who is addicted to cigarettes or vaping. They may fall asleep anxious to get their next “fix.” When they grant themselves that “fix,” depending how accustomed their body is, most likely will not release the same amount of pleasurable neurotransmitters (like dopamine and serotonin) as when the person first started using. Therefore, some addicts may relent to excessive use in order to “recapture” that same “high” they once felt. Some schools of thought have shown that anything in excess can and may lead to a life imbalance, and that is likely what happens when an addict engages in an ongoing vice.