Rita J. answered 09/15/20
Creative Melody Mom Teaching Diverse Student Groups Online or In-Home
Adding my "two cents" to the already excellent answers:
"Disorder" and "difficulty" can discourage the student - making them feel they are blocked from success.
I prefer the term "Learning Difference" - highlighting that the student has a unique way of approaching the topic - any topic - and is able to grasp the concepts. My child has thrived with this approach. She understands her "difference" can help others, and I'm amazed at her unique perspective and joy in learning!
As educators, we need to celebrate differences and include the joy of discovery in each lesson! We are "adventurers in the mind" - digging into habits and self-talk the student uses, and changing thinking into a GROWTH MINDSET.
You are the expert in your child - and sometimes, the only one who understands what they need. Testing is great, and will help you evaluate and identify their needs. You are entitled to this through your school.