Become Determined

Question

Good afternoon!

Questions: How can I become persistent and dedicated? How can I become committed to accomplishing my goals?

I have written many schedules and plans, but I am always unable to follow them after three or four days. I genuinely want to be able to be determined to achieve my aims. If I could at least be committed to my goals for 1 month, I will accomplish them. 

Every time I tell myself that “I will follow the schedule,” something always happens. For instance, sometimes my leg will commence hurting hard, thus I will be unable to work. Other times my laptop or computer will stop working. There is always something happening to make me find a reason to stop following the schedule.

Moreover, I am behind on my personal and academic goals because of my lack of determination. There are numerous things that fancy doing. 

I have almost every resource I need to start working toward my goals. I discover that the problem is merely me. I only have to commence, but every time I start working on my goals, it does not necessarily take long for me to stop. 

How can I be determined toward my goals? If I am determined to follow my schedule and start working on my aims, I will undoubtedly accomplish them.

Answer 1

It sounds like you have a good grasp of how to set goals, and you seem to actively work towards them for a while. You also realize that you are your own worst enemy when it comes to follow-through. If the way you have been posting your goals works for a time, I would consider continuing to use those methods, but you will need to implement a "fail-safe" once life happens and gets you distracted.

You might try using your phone or other device to incorporate into your goal-setting plans. Maybe make a digital reminder with an alarm that goes off on days you need to be working on something. The alarm might be the extra kick you need to get yourself redirected and back on track.

Another suggestion is to find an "accountability buddy." Along the lines of a gym partner, this person could help you get motivated when you are falling behind and help you refocus. You should be willing to do the same for them. Teamwork makes the dream work!

I hope this information was helpful. Let me know if you have follow up questions. I'd be happy to help.