In order to determine the mass of Li3N that we could form, we first need to determine which reactant is limiting. Our reactants are lithium metal and nitrogen gas. We have an excess of nitrogen gas, so our limiting reactant will be lithium metal.
In order to determine the mols of Li3N that can form, we must determine the moles of lithium available. We can convert mass of lithium to moles of lithium via the atomic mass of lithium:
12.1g Li (1 mol / 6.941g) = 1.74 mol Li
Next we examine the balanced equation. We can see that for every 6 mols of Lithium metal that reacts, 2 mols of Li3N will form. Using this info, we can convert moles of Li to moles Li3N:
1.74 mol Li (2 mol Li3N / 6 mol Li) = 0.581 mol Li3N
Finally we can convert mol Li3N to grams using the molar mass of Li3N. We can determine the molar mass using the atomic masses from the periodic table:
molar mass of Li3N = 3 * atomic mass lithium + 1 * atomic mass nitrogen = 3 * 6.941 + 1 * 14.01 = 34.8 g/mol
We can use this to convert moles to grams:
0.581 mol Li3N (34.8 g / mol) = 20.2g Li3N