shape who we are as adults?

Answer 1

One is on earth for a purpose. Your purpose is different than the next person, because people were created with different destinations. Now, how are we shaped to become the individual we were meant to be, and how do we know who we are supposed to become? How does one know they actually accomplished what they were created for? It all narrows down to daily life issues that are broken down into two sections: love and pain. Pain that breaks, strengthens, and molds us. Imagine a rock. That rock is supposed to become dust. Now, how will that happen if its not broken down? It must be broken with hardships, pain and growth (metaphorically speaking). Unless one smashes it into pieces, then it will become what it was meant to be. Am I saying life should be destroyed and ruined? Of course not. That's where the other half comes in. The other half consists on love and healing; which relies on faith, joy, peace, patience, kindness, wisdom, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. in our lives. Reason why one needs good mentors, good role models and friendships that will edify the individual towards a bright future filled with values, morals, and principals for a bright future. Therefore, the combination of love and pain both shape who one becomes.

Answer 2

Hello,

I'm assuming the part of the question you have not included looks something like:

How does X in childhood shape who we are as adults?

I don't know the beginning of the sentence, but let me help you understand the part of the sentence you posted.

Shape (v) = to inform, influence, create, make, impact,

We (pro) = Might be a specific group of people in full context of question, otherwise, we means people in general.

Who we are = what we are like; our personalities, characteristics, interests, fears, motivations, concerns, problems, etc.

As adults = when we grow up; when we become adults; when we are adults.

So, you could possibly rewrite the question as:

How does ________________in childhood influence our personality when we grow up ? (become adults)

Answer 3

Embarrassment can work one of two ways with people as they grow. The more embarrassed we get as we progress through life, the tougher, stronger, and more easily adaptable and fearless we become as we get older. That can help when it comes to facing obstacles and challenges that would otherwise present problems and intimidation for individuals who are not as tough as the more "embarrassed" bunch of folk. Also, fearless folk who may have gotten embarrassed a lot growing up due to unusual personal character traits become used to (albeit still not fond of) other people picking on them, so they grow to accept their ill social fate without making a scene or breaking down publicly. That newfound strength of character can help the embarrassed souls actually become less embarrassed and humiliated over time because they know that they have "weird" qualities in the eyes of the less enlightened masses of people in their everyday surroundings, and therefore they are not ashamed of who they are as unique, eccentric individuals. Also, this toughness can help the once embarrassed lot lose any fear of public speaking and performing they may have once (or otherwise) owned. Hence, the complete removal of stage fright long-term for the better!

So although one is not encouraged to put themselves in embarrassing situations or hang around people who humiliate them intentionally, if one is faced with feelings and scenarios of embarrassment more often than not, they will become numb to its terrors and instead face life with their heads held high. Self-confidence and pride will in turn rampantly develop, and they can thus become good role models for others, especially younger people, around them.