We see a question of proportions, and we need to define a proportion to find the height of the house.
let x = height of the house, then the height of the house is to its shadow as Lena's height is to her shadow.
So, x is to 14' as 4.5' I to 3.5'
x/14' = 4.5'/3.5'
after cross multiplying, we get 3.5'x = 4.5' x 14'
when we solve for x, we get x = 18'