These really confused me at first, too!
5d + 4h = 14
4d + 5h = 15.25
We need the coefficients of d or h to be opposites so that they add up to zero. What if we make the d coefficients 20 and -20?
4(5d + 4h) = 4(14)
-5(4d + 5h) = -5(15.25)
20d + 16h = 56
-20d - 25h = -76.25
Now, if we add the two equations together...
-9h = -20.25
-9h/-9 = 60.25/9
h = $2.25
5d + 4(2.25) = 14
4d + 9 = 14
4d = 5
d = $1.25