give an example of a value judgment and question you might use in response to the following client statement. Your response should include an "I" statement.

Question

There are times where you may have to make judgment calls about the client's behavior especially when they are in danger of hurting themselves or someone else. The value judgment needs to focus on the behavior not the client. Keeping this in mind, give an example of a value judgment and question you might use in response to the following client statement. Your response should include an "I" statement. Your client says "My ex has really screwed up my life. It's her fault I lost my job and now she doesn't want me to see our kids But karma will get her too, I'll make sure of it. I'll get even with her."

Answer 1

An example of a value judgment and question using an "I" statement in response to the client statement could be:

"I am concerned about the language you are using to talk about your ex. When you say 'get even with her,' what do you mean by that? Can you tell me more about what you're feeling and what you're hoping to achieve?"



This response focuses on the behavior the client is expressing, rather than judging the client themselves. It also seeks to understand the client's perspective and feelings, while also highlighting potential concerns about the language they are using.