Use the formulas for a mean (np) and standard deviation - sqrt(npq)
And don't forget q = 1 - p
So you have a system of equations with 2 unknowns:
7 = n * p
sqrt(2.1) = sqrt ( np(1-p) )
Could you solve it? So, you find n, p
Then q = 1-p
P(x=4) you will find with the calculator, or using binomial formula