How do I stop favoritism??

Question

My volleyball coach plays favorites. I know it doesn’t sound like that big of a deal but it is. Last year I was her favorite..this year she hates my guts but likes the ADs daughter it absolutely drives me crazy

Answer 1

Firstly, I do no think this is the proper medium to ask such a question. Questions like this aren't really academic in nature, they are more personal. I would recommend talking to a guardian or a therapist if available. With that said, I believe the best way answer to your question is simple: you can't. I know it's not the answer that you want to hear, you cannot control other people or their attitudes towards you. You can certainly present yourself in a certain way- but it is up to others to form their own opinions based on that. This question leads me to believe you are on the younger side, so I advise you that understanding that you can't control others is hard to accept but an incredibly valuable skill that will help you as you get older.