How should I say "wife" in Spanish?

Question

Some seem to suggest that "esposa" is overly formal and recommend "mujer" instead. The latter seems (potentially) a little possessive ("my woman"), especially in our current climate. Or would "mujer" never be construed that way?

ALSO - is there a difference between Castilian and Latin American words for "wife" in terms of colloquial usage?

Gracias!

Answer 1

The Spanish translation of wife is "esposa" but it depends. "Esposa" is used when you are legally married to that woman, but if you are not married "mi mujer" "mujer" is used to refer to that person. There is nothing offensive with calling her "mi mujer" in most of Latin American countries as far as I know, neither in Spain. I have been in Spain many times and they are Ok with that. "Mi mujer" equals to what you say "my woman", "my lady"

Answer 2

Esposa is the better way, in some areas "mi mujer" or "mujer" may sound a little offensive

Answer 3

Both words for wife are used in the hispanic world. I believe that it is a matter of preference and not formality.