Lily L. answered 05/22/23
Tutor with 7+ Years of Experience
You can remember the difference in this way: passed is always a verb, while past is never a verb.
So both of your examples should use "past"
In contrast, if you said, "I have passed that stage of grief," you're using the verb "passed"
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