
Geoff G. answered 09/14/21
College A&P Instructor with 7 Years of Experience
The key to understanding this concept is knowing the difference between polar and non-polar and how this affects behavior in solution. A polar molecule has a separation of electric charge so that part of the molecule is positive and part is negative. A non-polar molecule is electrically neutral.
Polar molecules are attracted to water (hydrophilic) which itself is polar - the charges in a polar molecule are attracted to the positive and negative charges in a water molecule. Non-polar molecules are repelled by water (hydrophobic).
A phospholipid is a molecule with a polar region and a non-polar region. Think of it like a lollipop - the head is polar because it contains a charged phosphate group. The stick is non-polar, essentially a long hydrocarbon chain. When lots of phospholipids enter solution the heads stick out to face the water while the sticks arrange themselves inwards away from the watery solution and shielded by the heads.
So imagine you have one lollipop facing up and another next to it but facing down. Now alternate this pattern over and over. This is the structure of the phospholipid bilayer of the plasma membrane. In order for a substance to cross this membrane it needs to pass through the "stick" part which is non-polar. Likes dissolve likes, so only non-polar substances can dissolve in order to pass through the membrane. Hence the membrane is permeable to (small) non-polar substances but impermeable to polar substances. These need to cross the membrane through specially dedicated channels which are like little tunnels through the membrane made out of protein.