17 + (x-3) = 17 +x -3 = 14+x
it's equivalent to 14 more than the number
or
17 + (3-x) = 20-x
the difference between a number and 3 is the absolute value of their difference = lx-3l
17 + lx-3l = either 14+x or 20-x
17 +lx-3l =17 +x-3 if x>3
=14+x
but
17+lx-3l = 17 + (-x+3) if x<3
= 20-x
lx-3l is the difference between a number and 3. it's value depends on whether x>3 or x<3
if x=3, it then lx-3l =0