Really, the parentheses do nothing more than make it confusing. Throw them aside by distributing the middle operator:
11m2 - 2mn + 8n2 + 8m2 + 4mn + (-2n2) <-------- At this stage, you start grouping by variables
11m2 + 8 m2 + 8n2 - 2n2 - 2mn +4mn <------- In this format, you can easily carry out the operators
19m2 + 6n2 + 2mn <-------After combining all like variables into single terms, you have reached the simplified answer