What is it about Public Speaking that scares people?

Answer 1

Hi,

The question you have asked is a frequent question regarding Public Speaking.

Fear of failure (FOF) and Fear of the Unknown (FOU) is the real reason for the scare in Public Speaking. More than knowing the reasons for the fear/discomfort/holding back in Public Speaking, it is essential to understand how to perform well on stage.

I agree with the experts on practising before the final performance, but sometimes over-practising a verbal discourse might cause anxiety, forgetfulness, and stage dropping. Therefore, I suggest a few simple things before you finally present before people.

1. Hone your presentation skills with small chunks of people. However uncomfortable/insignificant it might appear, come out and present in small settings.
2. Use PowerPoint/some cards/graphics, etc., to keep yourself on track and get an easy striking reminder regarding what next. It avoids your digression and helps your listeners to relate and get something to see which (images are attention-seeking) and hooks them through your presentation.
3. Ask them to answer small questions/engagement games to make your audience participate in the session.
4. Learn storytelling: Make them relate to what you are saying,
5. Most importantly, own your domain, that brings confidence in whatever you say, your body language, and

Practice the points mentioned above and see the difference.

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Answer 2

I think it comes down to a fear of being seen, and of making mistakes in front of others--of being vulnerable. This is all totally understandable. As a professional writer-speaker, I get very nervous before I perform. But nervousness is part of the process, and completely normal! That's why it's so important to practice before hand, so that even though nervous, you can transcend those fears. Practicing over and over and over is the simplest, most concrete way of ensuring your success. So practice, make the speech yours. Know it inside and out, really connect to it...and "being seen" won't seem as scary.