Marc Dean M. answered • 05/10/19
Focused Support for Tough Writing and Speaking Problems
For most of us, a fear of speaking in class is normal, especially the first few times. We all worry that we might not have the right answer, or be raising the right point. And we fear ridicule by the instructor or other students. No one who speaks up in class can avoid these outcomes entirely.
The first thing to remember is that everyone is wrong or ridiculed sometimes. Your best strategy is to start speaking up when you really know the answer, or feel strongly about the point you want to make. Be sure you have your facts lined up and the arguments you need to defend yourself. Start on small matters and work your way up. Eventually, you will learn when you are actually wrong, or just hold a different opinion.
When you are wrong, admit it and move on. You will be admired by most of your peers and the instructor.
When your opinion is sound but different, withdraw gracefully. There will be some in class who agree with you.
Finally, everyone is at least slightly afraid to speak up. Experienced speakers know that fear restrains you from making remarks you can't back up.
