Razi H. answered 21d
Harvard Grad & College Counseling Expert - 50 Best Harvard Essays
Harvard interviewer and college consultant here.
The biggest mistake? Doing things you don't like just because you think colleges want to see them.
I know what you're thinking: "Okay, well I won't like high school, but at least I'll get into my dream college." Here's the thing—that's not even true.
Students who chase what they genuinely care about discover new interests, try unexpected things, and write compelling essays because they're drawing from real passion. When you're not aligned with what you're doing, you'll check the boxes because you have to, but you won't explore. You won't try new things. You won't make associative leaps between different areas. And yes, you won't enjoy what you're doing—but colleges also won't be impressed.
One of my students started learning Spanish because he worked at a food pantry and wanted to speak to more people there. That became a powerful essay story and a genuinely meaningful experience for him. Another student reconnected with his Jewish heritage through his love for Romantic literature, exploring how those ideas pioneered new paradigms for faith and observance. These weren't strategic moves—they were authentic connections that emerged from following what excited them.
Passion comes through in applications. Admissions officers read thousands of essays; they can tell the difference between someone going through the motions and someone who's genuinely curious, excited, and engaged. The irony is that the students who stop trying to game the system and instead pursue what they actually care about are the ones who end up with the most compelling applications—and who enjoy the process along the way.