Hello, Aly,
The balanced equation tells us that when 1 mole of SiSiF4(g) is combined with 2 moles of H2O(l), we'll get 1 mole of SiO2(s) and 4 moles of HF(g) and it will release 184kJ as a result. But I'll a little confused about the question, since you then state that we are "using HF and that the SiO2 is in excess." Does the question pertain to the reverse reaction? If so, the reaction would require heat, and ΔHrxn would become -184 kJ (it absorbs energy).
If that is the case, then the question becomes one of calculating how much heat is released if you have less than 4 moles of HF, looking at the original equation. In fact, you only have 4.1 g/(20.01 g/mole) = 0.20 moles. The amount of heat required for this smaller reaction is thus (0.20/4)*(-184 kJ).
I hope that helps,
Bob
ΔHrxn = +184 kJ