Richard P. answered 04/20/20
PhD in Physics with 10+ years tutoring experience in STEM subjects
The only choice I like is the first one. The root of the problem is that quantum mechanics allows a bonding pair to be in a superposition of two (or three) states. In simpler language, a bonding pair can be in two (or three) different places at the same time. Lewis diagrams cannot really account for this quantum effect. Hence the kludge of resonance structures.
II is not good because X-ray analysis shows that there is just one bond length in a molecule like SO2 not two.
A counter example to III is NH4+
As for IV, free radicals like NO violate the octet rule, but nevertheless people do draw Lewis diagrams for them.