
Tony M. answered 10/19/19
Multiple years teaching introductory level college chemistry courses
First, how many electrons does calcium have? It's atomic number is 20; this means that it has 20 protons and 20 electrons.
By abbreviated, one assumes that we would start with the previous noble case. In the case of calcium, that would be argon.
So Calcium's abbreviated electron structure would be [Ar] 4s2 (because it is in the 2nd column and on the 4th row). As Calcium is a metal, it loses electrons to become an ion. So it would lose the 2 electrons. That would make its abbreviated electron structure simply [Ar]. The calcium ion has 18 electrons so it is isoelectronic with Argon.
We would do something similar with Sulfur. Sulfur has 16 electrons - so its structure would be [Ne] 3s2 3p6; it would gain 2 electrons to become an ion (non-metals gain), so its ion structure would be [Ne] 3s2 3p8 and that makes it also isoelectronic with Argon.