Hi Addie, I hated word problems too. The best way I found to approach them is to write down the information in as few words as possible.
plane 1: Los Angeles to Denver at 430 mph
plane 2: Denver to Los Angeles at 510 mph
plane 1 leaves 30 mins before plane 2
LA and Denver 850 miles apart
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So to begin with plane 1 got a 30 minute head start, so since it was going at 430 miles per hour and 30 minutes is half an hour, it has traveled 215 miles when plane 2 takes off.
Now since the locations are 850 miles apart, at the time plane 2 leaves, they are only 850-215=635 miles apart.
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Now lets see what we have to do, the planes are 635 miles apart one is traveling at 430 mph and the other 510 mph.
Now you can write an equation to find the amount of time it will take for the trains to meet.
430x+510x=635
940x=635
x=635/940 hrs until the trains meet from the time the second one left (keep it as this fraction to avoid rounding errors)
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Now the final stage!!!! (this is a very involved math problem)
Find the distance from denver. I would work off the second plane numbers now.
So plane 2 is going from Denver to LA at 510 mph and has traveled for 635/940 hrs, so to calculate the distance it has covered would be (510mi/hr)(635/940 hrs) = 344.5 miles.
I hope I did all the math correctly, but thats the idea. I'm going to do a check of my work and i'll edit if I find any issues.