How do I find the perfect music teacher for me?

Question

How can I be sure to find someone who helps me feel supported and encouraged, confident in my learning and abilities?

Answer 1

To find someone who helps you feel supported, encouraged, and confident in your learning and abilities, start by identifying what kind of support you truly need—whether it’s emotional encouragement, structured guidance, or simply a safe space to grow. Look for someone who not only has expertise, but also genuine empathy and emotional intelligence; pay attention to whether they listen, adapt to your needs, and show real investment in you as a person. Ask thoughtful questions like how they handle discouraged students or adapt to different learning styles, and trust your instincts after your first interaction—did you feel seen, heard, and hopeful? The right person will meet you where you are, offer constructive encouragement, celebrate your progress, and believe in your potential even when you doubt it. You deserve someone who fosters curiosity over perfection and stays present through both your growth and setbacks.

Answer 2

I hear this question so often! Here are my suggestions:

1. Write down what is important to you. Do you want someone who will really hone in on how often you practice and manage that time for you, do you want someone who will be strict or flexible?
2. Do a Google search or look on platforms like Wyzant to find teachers.
3. Book a trial lesson with 2-3 different teachers to see who is the best fit and really "clicks" with you.
4. Compare teaching styles of the teachers, how they respond to you, how they make you feel, ease of practice, requirements of the teacher/studio, etc.
5. Sleep on it. It is always best to sleep overnight on a decision and see how you feel in the morning.

I hope this has given you some good tips on how to find the perfect teacher for you! Happy learning!