To find the average rate of change of a function f(x) between x1 and x2, you use the expression
(f(x2)-f(x1))/(x2-x1) i.e the slope of the line connecting (x1,f(x1)) and (x2,f(x2)
If you input all the values given, you get ((4+h)2- 11)-(42-11))/h
Multiply out the binomial square and simplify. (If you let the h go to 0, you have the derivative at x=4)
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