Daniel B. answered 02/12/23
A retired computer professional to teach math, physics
The calculated 18.566 m/s is not the final velocity in the y-direction,
but the initial velocity in the y-direction, i.e., v2i.
And you correctly concluded that the final velocity in the y-direction must
be half the initial velocity in the y-direction.
Let
v1i = 13 m/s be the velocity of the East-bound car,
v2i (to be calculated) be the velocity of the North-bound car,
vf be the final velocity,
m be the common mass,
α = 55° be the angle of vf.
Conservation of momentum in the x- and y- direction are
mv1i = 2mvfcos(α)
mv2i = 2mvfsin(α)
Divide the second equation by the first to get
v2i/v1i = tan(α)
That is why
v2i = v1itan(α)