Dani S. answered 07/11/24
College Counselor and in charge of the College Office for 3+ years
Firstly, I am sorry to hear that you have gone through those hardships and challenges during your high school career. I am happy to hear, however, that you have taken that and turned it into a positive experience and have grown in your senior year.
I would say that, in my professional opinion, a community college might be a good fit for you because it will allow you the opportunity to continue to get your grades up in hopes of attending a four year college, get your "feet wet" so to speak and ease into the college experience, offer smaller classes with more personalized targeted attention, explore certain college majors, and can be more affordable. Some colleges also offer articulation agreements where if you maintain a certain GPA in a specific major you will are guaranteed to get into a specific four year college.
These days, most colleges/universities firmly believe in a more holistic application - where they do not look at just grades when accepting a student. They look at the entire picture such as grades, test scores, college essay, letters of recommendation, and activities. I would strongly encourage and recommend that you build a stronger college essay, ask for letters of recommendation from credible sources who know you well (ie. a teacher, employer, community service supervisor, religious leader, etc.) and participate in extracurricular activities, job experiences, and volunteer opportunities.
Also college applications oftentimes have a spot when completing the application where you can explain your grades and state if anything specific happened during your high school career that negatively impacted your grades. I feel it is important to note that you shouldn't make it a "therapy session" but this is where you can certainly state the grades you are referring to, briefly explain what happened in that time, and focus mostly on how much you've grown and what you can positive contribute to their campus as a result.
Also I am unsure how your public university system works but at least within New York City, public high school students are guaranteed to get into 1 community college. It might not be the one of their choosing, but one public community college has to accept them. I am hoping this is the case where you reside as well! Something to look into.
Best of luck to you in your college search. You got this!