the balanced chemical equation for this reaction is
2 C4H10 + 13 O2 → 8 CO2 + 10 H2O
meaning that 2 moles of butane (C4H10) produces 10 moles of water (H2O)
so first you want to take the 90 grams of water and convert that into moles
90 g / (18.016 g/mol) = 4.996 mol H2O
then you can convert that into moles of butane by multiplying by the molar ratio
4.996 mol H2O x (2 moles C4H10 / 10 moles H2O) = 0.999 mol butane
finally then i would scale that by the molar mass to convert the balance into grams
0.999 mol butane x (58.12 g/mol) = 58.07 g
meaning that 58.07 grams of butane were used in this scenario