I look at symbiotic relationships like this:
Organism A benefits + Organism B is negatively affected = parasitism
Org A benefits + Org B benefits = mutualism
Org A benefits + Org B unaffected = commensalism
A :) + B :( = parasitism
A :) + B :) = mutualism
A :) + B(meh) = commensalism
:) Hope that helps!