Jeffrey W. answered 04/17/19
Engineering graduate with experience with Precalculus and Calculus
This is a difference quotient problem.
You must first find each of the terms:
f(x+h) = (x+h)^2 - 3(x+h) -5 = x^2 +2xh +h^2 -3x -3h -5
f(x) = x^2 - 3x -5
f(x+h) - f(x) = (x^2 +2xh +h^2 -3x -3h -5) - (x^2 - 3x -5) = 2xh + h^2 -3h
[f(x+h) - f(x)] / h = (2xh + h^2 - 3h )/ h = 2x +h -3