1) No, energy is a scalar quantity, not a vector, so the orbital direction does not matter. The two satellites would have the same total energy if orbiting in the same direction
2) The gravitational attraction between the two satellites does contribute to the total energy, but the contribution is negligibly small since m<<M.
For a satellite of mass m orbiting in a circular orbit at a distance r from the Earth's center of mass:
mv2/r = GMm/r2
v2 = GM/r
KE = (1/2)mv2 = GMm/2r
Total Energy (E) = Potential Energy + Kinetic Energy
E = -GMm/r + GMm/2r = -GMm/2r
For two satellites with the same mass (m) and orbital radius (r):
E = 2(-GMm/2r) = -GMm/r