f(x) = 4x3 + 3
You want to find the "difference quotient":
(f(x+h) - f(x))/h
f(x+h) = 4(x+h)3 + 3 = 4(x3 + 3x2h + 3xh2 + h3) + 3 = 4x3 + 12x2h + 12xh2 + h3 + 3
f(x+h)-f(x)/h = (4x3 + 12x2h + 12xh2 + h3 + 3 - 4x3 - 3)/h
= (12x2h + 12xh2 + h3)/h
= 12x2 + 12xh + h2