My question is what is an absolute value?
The absolute value of a number is the distance (always positive) from the number to zero. So any given number has 1 absolute value. Now if you are asking something like 'solve for x where the absolute value of x + 4 = 8' then that kind of equation will almost always have '2 answers'. One where x + 4 = 8 and one where x + 4 = -8. Therefore x={-12,4}. But why 'almost always'? What if the question is 'solve for x where the absolute value of x + 4 = 0'? Positive and negative zero are the same. Therefore only one answer.
Now inequalities depend on the question. The problem you gave asks for all values of x that make -3 < x+5 < 8 true. When you do the subtract 5 (or add -5) from all the term the result is -8 < x < 3. This is an and because x must be both greater than -8 and less than 3. An example of an or result could be something like 'the absolute value of x + 5 is greater than 8. Check out the above discussion of absolute value. Draw the number line and play.