Daniel, what we want is to add our two equations and have one of the variables cancel out.
The easiest way to do that is to multiply the 2nd by -3. This gives us -3x - 9y = 30.
Now we have
3x - 4y = -4
-3x - 9y = 30
If we add the two together, 3x - 3x = 0. -4y - 9y = -13y. -4 + 30 = 26. So, we have
-13y = 26
Dividing both sides by -13, y = -2.
You should know from here how to find x. Hope this helps!