Steven W. answered 08/01/19
Physics Ph.D., college instructor (calc- and algebra-based)
The most direct answer is that the reaction pair of forces in Newton's third law never act on the same system. Since both the gravitational and normal forces act on the book, they cannot be a reaction pair.
If we can describe a force as the force of "something" on "something else," it gets a bit easier to write the reaction pairs. For this case, we can call the gravitational force "the gravitational force of the Earth on the book." For the reaction force, just switch the order of the systems: "the gravitational force of the book on the Earth" (in other words, the book attracts the Earth with the same gravitational force as the Earth does the book).
The force of the table on the book, which is a normal force (contact force perpendicular to the surface of the table), is the "contact force of the table on the book." The reaction force to that would be the "contact force of the book on the table."
A key point here is that it takes more than just being equal in magnitude and opposite in direction for two forces to be a reaction pair. One must be CAUSED by the other, as well.