lim {[1/(x+h)2] - (1/x)}/h is the derivative when h-->0
Forget the lim for the moment
(1/h)[x2 - (x+h)2]/[x2((x+h)2]=(-2x-h)/[x2(x+h)2]...note the h divided out of the numerator
When h -->0 the numerator goes to -2x and the denominator to x4
and the limit is -2/x3