A square matrix, A, is symmetric when A = AT. So, aij = entry in row and column j must be the same as aji = entry in row j and column i.
a12 = a21 (a-b=2)
a23 = a32 (b+c=5)
a31 = a13 (a-b+c = 6)
Since a-b=2, a = b+2
Substitute for a in the equation a-b+c=6 to get b+2-b+c=6
c = 4
Since b+c=5 and c=4, we get b = 1
Since a=b+2 and b=1, a = 3