These used to confuse me, too! What we want is to make either the x or y coefficients to be opposites so they cancel out. If we multiply the 1st equation by 2, we end up with 10x and -10x.
10x + 14y = -18
-10x -6y = 2
If we add the two equations together, 10x + (-10x) = 0, so they cancel out.
8y = -16
y = -2
5x + 7(-2) = -9
5x - 14 = -9
5x = 5
x = 1
(1,-2)