Hello, Gabrielle,
The balanced equation tells us that 13 moles of O2 are needed for every 2 moles of butane. If you have 0.09 moles of butane [thanks for doing that calculation], you need to multiply that by the molar ratio (13 moles O2/2 moles butane). So 0.09 x 2/13 =0.56 moles O2. The molar mass of O2 is 32 gram/mole, so multiply that times the moles O2 required to determine the number of grams of O2. I get 17.89 grams, 18 grams with 2 sig figs, although technically it should be 1 sig fig, since the 5 grams of butane is only 1. 20 grams with 1 sig fig, but it hurts to do all that work for such a loose answer. :)
I hope this helps,
Bob