The 1,3 isomer must be more stable due to steric effects. I think you are mixing up kinetic and thermodynamic effects. The O,P products form faster because the reactive intermediate, the non-aromatic carbocation, is more stable. Formation of the carbocation intermediate is the rate limiting step.
But once the product forms, the molecules can't "remember" the carbocation intermediate. They only know how stable they are as final products. If the reaction is reversible, such as with higher temperatures, eventually an equilibrium is reached where the 1,3 product predominates.
I have never actually seen this discussed in an introductory class. Normally, they just want you to draw the O/P products. Other reactions are used to illustrate kinetic vs thermodynamic effects, such as addition to conjugated dienes.