As many of you know I have a background that is rooted in public speaking. I was a debater in high school and have continued to stay in the judging pool for tournaments since collage for state and regional qualifying tournaments. I have always been told how well-spoken I am and many times complimented in interviews this as well. In the last year many have advised they believe I should be doing something to share this skill as I am so passionate about education and helping others. So let’s talk about and see how it goes.
The fear of speaking is more common than many would realize. As I have talked to people over the years, I had no idea it was so prevalent. As I started doing research and talking with so many, it is a real concern for many and many are striving to look for ways of improvement. I find myself asking what the fear is, where it derives from and what the top two or three largest concerns are. I tend to be analyzing most times and always seeking solutions so...
Surfers aren't known for their smarts, but you might be surprised. Surf magazines are filled with the most poignant imagery and poetic devotion. And a surfer under threat musters intellect to save the waves they love.
Yesterday a world-class surf break was under threat of demolition, a sacrifice for an unnecessary toll road. San Diego surfers congregated at the California Regional Water Quality Control Board, posters in their left hands and speeches in their right. One after the other, supporters approached the mike, from slick lawyers to 12-year old blonde groms. I watched them mount the stage and realized that I too wanted to speak. I was reminded of my time a a high school student, impassioned and prepared to speak out against the construction of a monstrous hotel. I thought back to my good times surfing at Trestles, felt the camaraderie in the room, and greeted the panel. Once I started telling the officials about my own experiences and my own passions, it was easy to express...
Hi prospective student! It's important to be well-prepared for your first session.
First, let's talk on the phone to address your needs and then:
Make sure you bring your writing with you! I know that may sound silly, but sometimes we walk out of the house and forget the keys.
Make sure your writing is printed on a clean copy with 1 - 1.5 inch margins, double-spaced so I can make annotations. (If it's not, don't worry, but that's ideal.)
Use a serif font (i.e. Times New Roman, Georgia). If you don't know what this means, no worries; I'll explain it to you during the first lesson.
If you don't have any writing yet prepared and want me to help you get started, then bring a notebook. We can brainstorm.
If you do have a writing sample, bring a notebook anyway, so we can take notes. Depending on your needs, I may give you a little assignment that you can do on your own.
Be prepared to turn off your phone or at the very least put it...
Imagine the audience in their underwear!
This is an old tip from who-knows-where. Has it ever helped reduce your public speaking anxiety? I'm going to take a wild guess and say your answer is "no". If you're happy with this underwear envisioning tip, then carry on. If you feel you need something more to help with your public speaking anxiety, read on!
Public speaking can be downright terrifying for many people. But here's the good part: it doesn't have to be. By using at least one of the tips below, you can make your presentation less nerve wracking and more enjoyable than you ever thought possible. So without further ado, here are a few tips to help with your next presentation:
Look at the tops of their heads
Now you might be thinking "aren't you supposed to give people direct eye contact or they might think you're lying?" Well, yes that's true. However, in a presentation setting, you are at the front of the...
A lot of people don't connect clear speaking with writing skills, but I've noticed that lots of students, from elementary school through college make errors in spelling and grammar because of the influence of hearing others pronounce words incorrectly. For example, "I don't know weather I'm going" or "Could you be quite, please? or "Me and my friend are...." The first two contain errors in spelling; the third has an error in grammar. But the way people
pronounce words or use ungrammatical speech can "crossover" into written language. And the less someone reads, the more apt this is to happen. I observe these errors a lot when I'm tutoring.
I studied voice articulation with someone considered to be the "best" teacher of this subject in the country, and proper pronunciation was drilled into me. Here's a little exercise to practice differentiating "whether" from "weather."
Do you have a friend you want to officially beat in a debate? Are my fees too high? Do you like showing off in front of people?
If this sounds like you then bringing a friend is the perfect solution! More people means a judge and maybe an audience. Every judge is a different and being judged is great practice!
And we can have debates!
Although I am rarely asked to organize debates they can teach us all so much. I cannot stress how useful it is to imagine that there is an opponent when writing a speech. Even if there is no opponent, the audience and the judge(s) may not agree with you. In essence they will have become your opposition. If you are not ready for a grumpy judge you will almost certainly fail.
In short: bringing friends is awesome for three classy reasons:
1) It will save you money!
2) There will be an audience/judge to persuade!
And don't forget the fun!!!
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Public Speaking- From Fear to Fierce
I went to a high school that put great emphasis on classical skills: Logic, Latin, and Rhetoric. The term “rhetoric” has a bad reputation in today’s society that is completely undeserved. The word “rhetoric” simply referred to the art of communication, often in public speaking or in discussion format.
That discussion aside, I loved the methods that we were taught to overcome that fear of public speaking, and I think that others could benefit as well. I remember the first time that each person in our ninth grade class had to present a paper to our history class. We were all white-knuckled clutching our entirely pre-written papers that must have only been two or three hand written pages in length. Shaking knees and even shakier voices were quite prevalent. The next year, when we started rhetoric classes, I watched those same students, including myself, giving speeches fifteen minutes or longer with very little noticeable hesitation...
I used to be a quiet person who didn't like to talk in front of a group of people for fear of making a mistake and having them laugh at me. Luckily, I learned from my high school basketball coach that making mistakes is a good thing, and nothing to be ashamed about. "How can it be a good thing?" I wondered.
She told me that my fear of making mistakes was paralyzing me, so much so that I was not allowing myself to try new things and new approaches.
Many of my international students come to me with the same fears. They are too ashamed of their limited spoken English, preferring to sit and listen, rather than try new situations and challenge themselves. My goal with any new student is to help them understand, the same way my basketball coach helped me to understand, that they are free to make as many mistakes as they can when they are with me. Together, with my guidance, they will learn from their mistakes and...
Philosophy of Education for M.J. T.
To me the purpose of education is threefold:
(1) provide students with a basis of knowledge,
(2) teach students how to reason so that they can continue their education throughout their lives, and
(3) instill in them a life-long excitement about and love of learning.
Students must acquire a basis of knowledge, a framework on which to sort out and understand how various aspects of information in any subject area fit together to make the whole picture of where we have been and where we are going as a civilization. Science affects philosophy which affects the arts … ad infinitum. Nothing exists in a vacuum-sealed box. All knowledge is recursive and intertwined - reaches out and affects many areas outside the discipline in which it begins. I liken this basis of knowledge to a needlepoint tapestry mesh framework. The threads of different strands of information are worked in at various points. In some way every thread touches every other...
My cousin once asked, "Where do you get your confidence?” Before I had time to consider the idea, the response came out, "I've made mistakes, and I'm not afraid to make mistakes in the future.” In public speaking, writing, and publishing; the speaker or writer must be confident. Confidence builders for me always include preparation. Here are ways I prepare to write and to present.
Brainstorming. The first step is good old-fashioned brainstorming. I prepare by thinking about the topic. What do I know? What do I want the audience to know after I'm done? How will I go about finding information for the content I do not know? while driving is one of my favorite times to ponder a topic, the audience, and the purpose of the writing or presentation. I call it TAP. Once I've considered the topic, audience, and purpose (TAP), the majority of planning is done.
The second step includes drafting. I choose to outline presentations and use paragraphing of thoughts for longer...
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As a communications professional for more than 28 years, I have served several times as a media relations representative - as communications director for a health care service, as a public relations firm account manager, as media relations specialist for a political party and as a campaign manager for a city council candidate. For an aspiring media relations specialist, education is key, but the education needs to be well-rounded. My experience has taught me that prospective employers want someone with at least a bachelor's degree in journalism/public relations or in a related field, but they also want a worldly individual with a wide base of knowledge to bring to the table. A degree in communication or English can be just as effective in providing general education to a prospective media relations specialist.
In interviewing with a prospective employer, a candidate for a job in media relations should make clear that he or she understands working on time and monetary budgets. In...
Q WyzAnt wants to know
If you could go back in time and give your younger self one piece of academic or professional advice, what would it be?
My greatest piece of advice to my younger self would be to have more courage in following your true passions. For example, I knew very early on that I loved writing but was fearful that my writing "wasn't good enough" and that I couldn't "make a living as a writer". As a result, I spent 26 years doing a corporate job that I hated only to embark on a second career that I finally feel called to do in my 40s.
If I had my academic career to do over again, I would have majored in English and creative writing and gone immediately on to graduate school focusing on a university teaching career and engaging in my own writing as a hobby. I am thankful that I am finally doing what I feel I was born to do; I only wish I had taken the path I am currently on about twenty years sooner.
I learned in my human development class that babies learn through repetition = Rote memory
You may have also witnessed the ease with which the ABC's were learned. Mary Had a Little Lamb? Twinkle Twinkle?
It is easier to commit something to memory through a song. Why is it so easy to remember that annoying tune on the radio?
To better memorize
- Rules (Grammatical, mathematical etc)
Try putting it to a simple song tune.
Ex My 2 year old learned how to spell his name BINGO style. L-O-G-A-N.
IF I could go back in time and give my younger self some advice on how to be a better student, be more successful in school, life, etc, I would definitely tell myself that being involved in everything comes at a cost. It is better to find a few things that you like to do, do them well and often, than feeling stressed because there is so much on your plate at one time. Being a 'Jack of all Trades' it is natural for me to dip my toes in different waters- all at the same time, but that does not mean that I can give 100% to any of them at that time.
While I was able to get good grades (A- average) while in school, I was impressed by how much better I did- and felt about my work- the few times that I scaled back on my activities.
Another piece of advice that I wish that I could bestow upon my younger self would be to learn how to speak up in a group setting when someone is not fulfilling their part of an agreement. Now, this said, the best way to do this would be in a tactful manner-...
I have received this question many times in many forms. The short version is it depends on what you, the student, needs. Do you (or your children) need speaking confidence? To stop stuttering? To speak loudly and proudly? But below are some specific skills and abilities I can teach in addition to whatever you need.
Proper body movement while speaking - foot work, hand gestures, even facial expressions!
The removal of filler words - "um" "er" and improper use of "like" just to name a few.
Word choice - words like "thing" "stuff" and slang are okay for your friends but not for a crowd!
Speech writing - oh the tricks! So very, very many; but here are a few: defining words in your favor, speaking to the judge (the judge is the person or people who matter, not necessarily the crowd), and listing examples in groups of three or two (did you notice me doing that yet? If so you have some experience already!).
Fixing the lies...
In my experience working with learners from various education levels and backgrounds, I understand the feelings of frustrations and concerns that many have when struggling with a subject or studying for a test but not receiving the results you would like or expect. It creates a feeling of helplessness or the sense that you can't overcome or you'll never get it. That's not true. With the right study skills, you can improve your confidence, preparedness, and ability in any area.
The keys to learner's success include having clear goals about what you want to achieve, learning effective study tips and strategies, pacing yourself, organizational skills, time management, academic planning and preparation, step-by-step instruction, committment (good work ethic), practice, and building confidence in your ability to improve and achieve your goals.
It's said, if you want to succeed, try and try again. That's the only way to do it.
If you have questions about assignments or practice...
Hello everyone! Or should I say kazoozampola! That is Dzongkha (the national language of Bhutan) for HELLO!
After a few months away in the Land of the Thunder Dragon, the Kingdom of Bhutan, teaching at the Royal University of Bhutan, I am back and ready to see you. I am ready to apply some of the insights into teaching that I gained on this last adventure.
Every year or so I try to freshen my approach to teaching. Subjects don't change that much. Let's face it - spelling stays pretty much the same, as does the pronunciation of words, and the structure of a sentence. But HOW to teach these topics -whether to a high school student struggling with essay writing or a business executive getting prepared for a presentation, or a non-native speaker hoping to improve his job prospects - refreshing teaching methods keeps me fresh, and keeps you interested (and helps towards better results).
A few years ago I took some ASL (American Sign Language) courses to help inform my teaching...
Here are some of my favorite quotes on education:
"Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever."
"Intelligence plus character--that is the true goal of education."
--Martin Luther King, Jr.
"The mind is not a vessel to be filled, but a fire to be kindled."
"The educated differ from the uneducated as much as the living differ from the dead."
"Knowledge will bring you the opportunity to make a difference."
"You'll never know everything about anything, especially something you love."
"If you think education is expensive, try ignorance."
"Education is the power to think clearly, the power to act well in the world's work, and the power to appreciate life."
"Learning is not attained by chance, it must be sought for...