Every day, take a bit of time to read or study. Maybe 30 to 60 minutes. Read something that interests you, or better yet, read something you are totally unfamiliar with -- to expand your mind and expand your interests. An interesting person is interested in things and interested in other people. Stretch yourself to become interested in others outside of yourself. Start in small ways, and work up to bigger things as you gain confidence. Think about become a leader in your life in some area. Think about learning more about a topic that you are interested in. It could be space travel, fashion, child care, nursing, chemistry, world history, cooking, or teaching. Or many other areas of life that could interest you. Challenge yourself to grow a little more each day. If you encounter setbacks, rest a day or two, then start over again to challenge yourself. Never give up. Keep on growing.