Last year I tutored reading and math once a week for an hour and a half to a 12-year-old girl in Arlington. Her mother told me she was dyslexic. This gave me the opportunity to go to the Robbins library down the street and survey all the books on dyslexia. My mother told me about a study going on at MIT on dyslexia, and I read about that as well (though I didn't completely understand it).
One really nice thing about tutoring in this home was the family. They had four children and a very home-y, comfy home mixed with a healthy dose of sarcasm. There was also a really un-intimidating dog (I won't say the name), whom I also got the chance to "tutor" (aka, take for a walk and clean up the poop). One of the brothers of the house was a talented high school pianist. His piano playing created an inspiring backdrop to tutoring sessions.
While tutoring, I visited a Montessori school in Melrose and was impressed. The order of the classroom, the focus of the students, the polished techniques used by the teachers, the cohesive curriculum, and the candor of the school attracted me. I learned some of the math and reading techniques, and tried these out on this girl whom I was tutoring. It seemed to be successful, though I do not think I persevered long enough to cause -and certainly not to record- any serious improvement.
Tutoring reminded me of several great "tutoring" movies. My Fair Lady is a great example, and I think "Mr. Higgins" actually a great example of a tutor, due to his order, his culture, and his love for the job (making for a very fun and enjoyable time). Mary Poppins, I think, is also, in a sense, a "tutoring" movie, though this is perhaps more subtle. Finally, the movie about Helen Keller, The Miracle Worker, is an inspiration, especially for a reading tutor or student. We watched this during one of our sessions.
One thing that was successful in my time: spending about half the class cooking cookies or muffins (and, with practice, attempting to multi-task cooking and tutoring). Cooking is a great activity that is time-based and requires care, therefore keeping the student on her toes and making them uncomfortable (so to speak). The girl I tutored enjoyed cooking, so it was a good activity to "get the brain going." Since cooking involves reading and math, it is a good alternative activity for these two subjects. It also helps to encourage order and time management, and therefore is just a great activity overall, improving study and life skills, as well as physical fitness and general joviality.
Also successful was any class I prepared for. Namely: my best classes were the ones before which I would spend about an hour sipping coffee at the local brew-house, jotting down notes and inspirations, and then about half an hour pondering and stretching by the nearby baseball field. I mean this seriously: our most productive classes were precluded by a good, long, thorough, and sincere "think." I found my student changed, her behavior corresponding in an uncanny way to my own preparation -disciplined, focused- , as the lesson was naturally captivating, being based on sincerity. We often spent the first 15 minutes of class reading in silence. Then we would talk about what she read, and write "who" "what" "when" "where" "how" and maybe "why".
On the other hand, as the year went on, I was not always able to thoroughly prepare for every lesson. Because of this, the girl's normal rebelliousness and desire to watch Nickolodeon sometimes took over. The dog, the heater, the blanket...these things are difficult to overcome without a lesson plan.